Just wanted to pop in and let you folks know that I'm still out here.
I haven't found a job yet. I can tell you that it's not for lack of trying though. It's a tough market out there and so many other folks are looking too. I keep applying for jobs every day though and know that when the right opportunity presents itself, God will let me know.
And after 14 years together and 11 years of marriage, I filed for divorce last week. I've had enough of the lunacy and it's time to save myself. Life is short and I've had way too many years of feeling miserable. It's time to bust down the prison walls and walk in the sunlight. My time lately has been consumed with this major life change and I know that the road ahead will be rocky but I can see promise at the end of the journey.
I hope that my words find you all well and that you're all getting some great rides in. I miss you all, my brothers and sisters. God bless.
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
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I'm glad you're still alive and kickin'!
I know several people who have been looking for work and it is tough right now, but you have a good attitude and it will work out the way it's supposed to.
I'm sorry to hear about the end of your marriage, but when it comes to your happiness you have to do what you have to do. I decided a long time ago not to settle into unhappiness, and I will never regret it.
Anyways, now my coment is longer than your post! :)
Keep us posted on how you're doing!
Well,....it is what it is. Don't live in the past.
You're a good lookin' dude so go out and find some rich old lady who only wants to gum bump.
Sorry about things but you are a survivor. Best wishes for the future!
Alive and kickin' is a good thing! Glad to know your still at it. It may seem fruitless in your endeavor at job seeking, but don't give up. That very next interview just may be your golden ticket.
I just went back and reread your post, "The Prison Inside Me". I'm glad you've taken your ray of sunshine by the hand, and escaped your prison.
Leave the dark days behind and live in the light... it's so much nicer there.
Take care my friend.
Dean,
Funny, I'm in such a similar situation right now. Difference being that my former old lady left me, and I'm likely going to lose my scoot over it. Nothing left to do but fly home and start from scratch. Oh, well, it's just a bike, right? And inside two years I'll have a shiny new big twin, and the pain will have faded.
Keep on keepin on, bro.
~SeanO
Well what a time for a new reader like me to drop in, right in the middle of hard times.
I'm saying a prayer for you.
Shit happens, life goes on and all those other clichés. My opinion is still the same; you’re a survivor and will come out on top no matter how high the mountain is. Good to hear from ya Bro. Keep the faith.
I will offer one bit of lame advise that I keep in the back of my mind; “Be careful of who’s toes you step on today, they may belong to the ass you have to kiss tomorrow”.
Good to hear from you! I'm sorry to hear about the marriage and you not finding a job yet but everything happens for a reason! You'll make it through...you are a kick ass biker dude! :)
Just started following your blog, hang in there! It's a tough job market right now, you'll find something. Keep the rubber side down!
Sorry to hear the road you are on is rocky, but soon you will find smoother highways. Hang in there. We'll be here for you. I wish you all the best.
Sorry the job thing isn't going well. It really is a tough market. I'm sure something will come up soon.
As far as the divorce goes; I know it will be tough, but life is just too damned short to be miserable. So I'm glad you're taking care of business. Been there, done that, bought the t-shirt. Let us know if you need anything.
So happy you posted. Keep your chin up. Things will turn around. :)
sorry to hear things are difficult for you d-day. times are tough everywhere it seems. hang in there and take it one day at a time...
I really think you should consider male prostitution as a fall-back position. One free ad on craig's list and you can go on an all expenses paid cougar hunt!
Seriously though, you and I are traveling down pretty much the same road together. When my ankle is fixed and my disability ends, I'm still going to be looking for work too. You already know I'm getting divorced also, and as far as that goes I totally understand. You probably did like me and hung in there a few years too long just because you thought you should. I'm sure you felt much as I did, a sense of impending freedom and a big weight off your back. There's also stress about lawyers, money, etc, but just knowing you're going to get your life back will guide you through. At least that's working for me.
When all this shit is behind us, we'll be hooking up on the road somewhere for a few cold ones. Even though we've only met once for a short time, we've got us some history already. There are brighter days ahead for us both brother. Hang in there and call me if you need to talk.
Dean - Thanks for the post and for letting us know how you're getting on. I'm sure it doesn't look like it right now, but as they say, this too will pass. My hope for you is that it will do so quickly.
Take care, and good luck! We want to see you back when this is all history.
Dean,
I can relate to the divorce. Was married 17 years and came to the same conclusion you seemingly did. It isn't easy, buddy. I know.
Keep beating the bushes for a job and one will come up. Things seem to be turning around a bit here in Vegas anyway. Hopefully they will soon there as well. Best of luck to you.
I have followed your Blog now for about 6 months now and I cant say I know you but I kind of do. Regardless I wanted to wish you well. It is crazy out in the world right now! Keep moving forward and be well.
Work will happen. Just keep the faith. God is there as you know. As for moving on..well hopefully that will be easy. As you are not under the daily stress you must need to exit from. Things do turn out with prayer and time...his time.
Wow! I'm touched by the number of comments on this post!
Thanx so much for all the words of support and encouragement. I really appreciate it.
You guys are the best. Bikers rock!
I left you a message on BON so I won't repeat myself here. Thinking about you.
I left you a message on BON so I won't repeat it here but I've been thinking about you.
I been lurking here for a while. I understand how difficult it is to find a job in these trying times. Good luck.
Take it from me, I've been married a few times. The third time was the charm. She knew what she was getting into and when people would tell her, "why don't you change him this way or that", the lady always responds with, "what is the point?"
Honesty and truthful communication is the ticket to good relationships. Me and number 3 have been together 21 years now. No need to go looking until you're ready, but believe me, there is someone out there who would be glad to share their life with you.
Hey, first time reader and I can totally relate. I was married for 18 years and one day had my ephiphany. I moved out and filed for divorce almost 3 months ago, and it's been a done deal for about two weeks. Now, it's the starting over that is the next hurdle! Hang in there. You're right. Life is short. And it's not a matter of looking forward so much as a matter of not looking back.
Sorry I am so late in posting...I've been "away" myself. I'm glad you are ok, sad to hear that your life has taken a difficult turn.
I understand what you are going thru with the relationship thing, I stayed in a bad situation for 15+ years and I'm so gun-shy, I'll probably be alone forever! BUT, I'm happy now and FREE to be me!
I do hope you have been able to find a job.
Best wishes to you.
MHL
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